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asks me how my day has been and listens to my response |
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makes physical contact with me in some way (hugging, etc) |
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doesn’t get on my nerves |
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calls me at night to check if I’m okay after leaving a party |
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smiles at me |
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asks how I am doing |
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listens to what I am saying |
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makes time for me even when he/she is busy |
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gives me a hug |
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asks me about my day |
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gives me full attention when I am talking |
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remembers to call if he/she said he/she would |
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treats the people around him/her well |
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remembers what I’ve talked about in the past |
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is willing to talk about his/her personal or emotional issues |
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listens attentively and offers advice |
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makes consistent eye contact with me |
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is in a bad mood when I am |
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performs spontaneous random acts of kindness |
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would stop what he/ she is doing to help me |
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makes an effort to talk to me or see me often |
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says “I love you” |
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hugs me when I look a little sad |
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supports my choices |
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is generally an optimistic person |
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is polite |
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encourages me to go for something that I want |
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makes an effort to understand me |
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shows up on time or when we are supposed to meet |
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calls me |
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cares about what's important to me |
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| 32 : |
offers to help me with something without me asking |
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loans me money when I don't have any |
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isn't afraid to cry or pour his/her heart out to me |
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helps me when I am sick or have a cold |
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is friendly to everyone |
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introduces me to others |
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is experienced with hard times |
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understands my personality and can give me feedback about a problem |
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| 40 : |
is similar to me |
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| 41 : |
has kept his/her word in prior situations |
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doesn’t doubt me and my judgment calls |
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has conversations on serious topics with me |
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sticks up for me if someone gives me a hard time |
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shows understanding about life |
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is considerate, i.e., holds doors or says thank you |
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| 47 : |
genuinely cares about my opinion in a conversation |
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knows when to leave me alone and not feel upset at me for being silent |
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reminds me that he will be there come whatever may |
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tries to make me laugh or smile whenever he/she can |
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doesn’t judge me when I do something “stupid” |
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is reliable; gets his/her work done on time |
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handles stress or bad situations well |
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wears whatever he/she wants with me |
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makes me feel like I can be myself around him/her without hiding anything |
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| 56 : |
does not lie to me even if it will hurt me |
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| 57 : |
remembers my birthday |
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